Tuesday, January 6, 2009

HAPPY KINGS' DAY



January 6, 2009
Today, along with other Paraguayans, we celebrate the wise men arriving to see baby Jesus. Last night the kids set out their shoes with a picture drawn for Jesus, straw and water. The camels, who are passing through on their way to Bethlehem, stop by, drink and eat and in return leave a little gift for the kids.



co 2009 Amy McKissick

Friday, January 2, 2009

HAPPY BIRTHDAY RYAN!

January 1, 2009

December 29th the SIM missionary guys and their older boys went on a 3 day/2 night camping trip. Ryan was looking forward to this maybe even more than he was to Christmas Day. I have heard stories about cliff jumping, rope swinging over the river, waffle ball, pork over the camp fire, a chicken hooked in the fishing pole, sleeping in the car, volleyball, back flips, and something about a mooning….to which Jeff quickly mentioned that he didn’t have to share about everything that happened at camp.

Yesterday was Ryan’s 9th birthday and I am sure he couldn’t have thought of a better way to spend it – at the river exploring with his best friends. Before lunch the guys loaded up their gear and said their good-byes. At home that morning, the other kids and I had been busy wrapping gifts, blowing up balloons and making cards and a cake for Ryan’s homecoming. Around 4:30 they arrived home (looking really worn out) with another missionary family. We sang “Happy Birthday”, eat cake and drank coke, and Ryan opened his gifts (all of which were along the Spiderman theme…thanks Grandma and Grandpa).

Since we didn’t get to do our “watch a new movie till midnight” tradition Christmas Eve due to the fire, we watched Prince Caspian last night till. Then we listened to the fireworks ringing in 2009…..we decided not to do anything of our own this time.




Today we had Ryan’s birthday party. He wanted a few of his Paraguayan friends to come over and swim. He also asked for a pool cake. I worked all morning on the cake…round cake with a hole in the middle for a pool (blue jello), a couple gummy bears were playing volley ball (part of my mosquito net and toothpicks), others were lounging in chairs (shaped gum) under umbrellas (wrapping paper and popsicle sticks), and still others were floating on air mattresses (shaped gum) in the water or sliding down the slide (gum). I am looking forward to making a few cakes in the states where we have all the ingredients I need and the decorations. When Ryan saw the cake he said, “Mom, you are so creative.”

At 5:00 the families showed up and the kids immediately went swimming. The water was out all afternoon (thankfully I filled the pool in the morning) and finally came back on for a half hour at 6:00 - just enough time to fill the water balloons. The kids played water balloon bowling and then did a relay race. Jeff grilled delicious pork and potatoes for dinner. Our company left around 10:00. Ryan told me that it was the best birthday he had ever had and the best he’d ever seen!

Water balloon bowling


water balloon bowling


Micah was very interested in the cake


Ryan's pool cake





co 2009 Amy McKissick

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

BARGAIN SHOPPER

December

It was one of those days when the sun was beating down with all its might. I walked to the store (which is practically next door) to buy a coke but ended up taking more than 30 minutes. There was a sweet 67 year old lady ahead of me. She would tell the 10 year old behind the counter what she wanted and Rocio would get it – item by item. As I waited I struck up a conversation. The lady had walked 2 hours to San Francisco just to buy a few things. She loaded up 5kilo of sugar in her burlap sack along with 6 bottle of whisky, a 5 kilo sack of rice, a couple boxes of yerba, a 2 liter bottle of honey, and a few other odds and ends. She put the sack on her head and prepared to walk the 2 hours home. I said to her that I was surprised that she couldn’t get any of that stuff in the town where she lives. She said, “I can buy it there, but it is cheaper here.”



co 2008 Amy McKissick

Saturday, December 27, 2008

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Our burnt roof


The finished product...



December 26, 2008

We had quite an eventful Christmas Eve! About 8:00pm we had our annual family fire cracker show. Jeff is a big kid when it comes to fire cracker fun. He’s always looking for new things to blow up or how to maximize the noise. The kids love it, except for Micah. He wanted to be held inside the house. He still tensed up every time; held his hands over his ears, squeezed his eyes shut, and shouted, “Nooooo!” When sparklers were brought out though, he did not want to be left out. He was right in the mix, waiting to get his stick lit. Even after we were done, the kids were riled up that they ran around outside for the next half hour.

At 9:30 I holler to Ryan to come inside for the movie (our Christmas Eve tradition is to watch a new movie and stay awake till midnight). As Ryan rounded the corner to the kitchen he began yelling, “Fire! Fire!” I run outside and see a foot high flame on our thatched roofed patio! In the commotion of getting outside, Jeff broke his finger on the door – ouch! While I untangled the hose and attached it to the spigot, Jeff began throwing buckets of water in the air hoping to reach the flame. It was useless. The roof is so tall that neither the buckets of water nor the hose could reach. It was scary at first because we couldn’t see how much of the roof was affected. Neighbors rushed over with buckets. Jeff climbed a tree to get a better view and began spraying the hose on to the roof from up there. Once the flames were out we relaxed. For 45 minutes he sprayed the roof but the smoke seemed to be getting worse. Then we realized why……

As the kids and I were staring at the roof, we saw sparks coming throughthe underside. The thatch is so compact that even though Jeff was dousing it with water, the water was reaching only the top layer. So, Jeff and I stood on a table and began squirting the water directly at the sparks from underneath. We got drenched in the process (it was the first time I had been cold in months!). I held the hose and Jeff held the flashing light in one hand and the rake in the other, poking holes in the thatch. We were practically blind from water messing up our contacts. Jeff even left the scene to change into glasses but soon realized that was far worse, so he left again to put his contacts back in. The frustrating part was that when we put any pressure on the hose end, the connections popped off leaving us with no water at all. The kids were troupers. Ginny and Joshua physically held the hose onto the spigot. Water was praying everywhere and they were soaked. At one point Ginny began to whimper, but once she saw that we all were wet, she chilled. Ryan’s job was to hold the two hoses together because the connector was not doing its job. It was difficult and it took a lot of strength. Unfortunately he began to get attacked by ants. He began crying and Jeff had to spray him with water (his legs look horrible today)! We did that for 45 minutes but could not stop the sparks.

It was time to call in back-up. We called Tony, our team mate, who rushed over with his high pressure hose adapter and ladder (the kids were glad to be relived from their hose duty). He and Jeff dowsed the roof from on top again. Tony climbed on the roof and began clipping wires, throwing bundles of straw to the ground. It was the only way to put out the fire. At midnight - more than two hours since we first saw the flames – we were finally able to sit down and relax. And of course the kids immediately asked, “Now can we watch a movie?”

We sat on our patio looking up at the stars through the big whole in our roof and found several things to be thankful for….yesterday’s rain and a windless night tonight. We were thankful we hadn’t started watching the movie. We were thankful that it started on the best possible spot – the side - for Ryan to see it and in order to reach it. We were thankful our teammates were home and that we were all safe.



Christmas Day the kids slept in till 9:00 and we open stocking as soon as they got up. Thanks to both sets of grandparents the kids were thrilled with their treasures. We ate chocolate crepes for breakfast and spent the rest of the day with our team mates, The Floyds. We sipped terere under their big shade tree and visited until lunch. We ate duck (that we had killed) and turkey (that they had killed), stuffing (box sent by Jeff’s parents) and cranberry sauce (from the Schmidt’s).
After lunch the guys cranked ice cream, Jean I cleaned up, and the kids ran around with popsicles in hand. Mid-afternoon the kids dug into the gingerbread houses (we cannot get ginger here so it was gingerbread without ginger) and the adults drank coffee ice cream punch. I made Reece Peanut Butter Cups. They were good but very messy (the chocolate could not stand the Paraguay summer heat).
Tony got out his guitar and Jeff his piano and we sang carols. When it got dark we shot rocket balloons (thanks Cox family) and played with silly string (thanks Floyd’s church). It was a fun day.

Christmas lunch with the Floyd family





co 2008 Amy McKissick

Friday, December 26, 2008

CHRISTMAS PREPARATIONS

Christmas Eve 2008

Once again Christmas has snuck up on me. It is still 100 degrees outside and we are very hot and sticky. The electricity and water went out last night and are still out this morning. Patients have come throughout the day needing medical attention and Jeff sat down this afternoon to prepare for Sunday’s lesson - ministry continues. Where we live, we don’t see lights on houses, Christmas trees in windows, or hear Christmas carols. The stores don’t stock anything extra, people don’t dress festive and there aren’t any pre-Christmas parties. In a way, today feels like every other day….However, the kids have a Christmas tree in their room and our stockings have been hung with care on the mantel. My kids have been counting down till Christmas morning.

Paraguayans celebrate on the 24th when extended family gathers for supper. They cook all their traditional foods plus cletico (a fermented fruit drink). I asked neighbor girls if they exchanged presents on Christmas and they looked at me like I was nuts. Can you imagine Christmas without gifts? Paraguayans stay up and ring in Christmas Day with fire crackers. Christmas morning is one of the only days Paraguayans deem acceptable to sleep in.

This will be our fourth Christmas in Paraguay and I am still trying to get use to a simpler holiday season. I miss a real Christmas tree and my ornaments for childhood. I miss eggnog (I made it but it didn’t tastes quite the same) and sipping hot chocolate to the glow of Christmas lights. I miss family and friends and the fellowship that this time of years brings. Living here, however, I do not miss the pressure to spend money on gifts and house decorations. I enjoy being with my family instead of staying super busy with parties, baking, and travel. Christmas time in the states is at times overwhelming.

So what do we do in rural Paraguay to celebrate? Well, this morning, we killed a duck (for lunch tomorrow) and made Christmas cookies (both took all morning). This afternoon we delivered the decorated sugar cookies to a few families, visited a bit, and drank terere. Jeff is preparing to grill pork and potatoes for dinner. We will watch a new movie and stay up till midnight (the kids LOVE that tradition). At the end of Christmas Eve, we will join in the fun of setting off firecrackers. Tomorrow we will open our stockings (we don’t do under the tree gifts), have a crepe breakfast (it was a unanimous vote from the kids) and then spend the day with our team mates (they killed a turkey for lunch). We will sip terere, watch the kids swim, and eat watermelon. Tony will get out his guitar and Jeff his piano. We will sing to Jesus (in English!) and praise him for the incredible sacrifice he made by donning human flesh and allowing himself to be place in a manger.

I better go…it is 7:00 and Jeff has found the fire crackers. He has already blown up a tomato and an egg and is asking if we have any watermelon…..

Kids watching lunch being killed


Plucking Christmas lunch


decorating cookies


Eating the final product


Water balloon bomb





co 2008 Amy McKissick

Saturday, December 20, 2008

A Season For Everything

Suture Stories
Last year, for about 6 months, Jeff sewed countless arms and legs (mostly men) and then he didn’t have another deep laceration case for several months…until now. We realize that machete and shovel wounds are more likely to take place in the spring and summer when people are clearing their field.

Our neighbor was gorged in the testicles by a cow. He was very blessed because his skin/sack was split a few inches but his “jewels” weren’t even touched! Ryan who has just finished reading Old Yeller said, “Maybe the cow had rabies.” Ginny said, “I hope it wasn’t Friend Cow.” Friend Cow is a cow that comes by the house every day around 5:00 to eat from our scraps bucket.

A lady needed stitches on her hand. Her boyfriend had gotten angry and stabbed her in the hand with scissors.

A three year old had half his big toe cut off by a shovel. The flesh and nail were gone and the bone was sticking out. The parents had wrapped a burnt towel around the toe. Jeff had to numb the toe in order to pick the towel pieces out and clean the toe. The poor kid howled the entire time. Jeff advised them to go to Caazapá and see a surgeon who might be able to do a skin graft. They did not go.

Snakes
It is also the season for snakes as the men clear their land. At the beginning of the week, a man waited patiently to see Jeff. Finally at 5:00 it was his turn. He had been bitten by a snake. He killed it and brought it for us to see. It was black and about 4 feet long. Gross! Jeff’s Boy Scout days paid off because he was able to recognize it as non-poisonous, plus the man wasn’t having any symptoms of a reaction. The man just wanted to be sure because last year he was bitten by a poisonous snake and spent a week in the hospital. That same week Jeff had two others come with snake bites which got Jeff thinking that he needed to bone up on his venomous snake knowledge. Word got out that he was collecting (dead) snakes to compose a photo file. A teacher at the school brought a poisonous 2 feet long mboi chumbe (coral snake). In North America the “red and yellow (touching stripes), kill a fellow” and “red and black, venom lack” would apply but not for South American snacks.

A lady came who lives 30 minutes from us had been bitten on the thigh by a venomous snake. Jeff immediately sent someone to find her a ride to Caazapa (45 minutes away) because we don’t have any anti-venom here. The site was already read and swollen and the lady was vomiting and turning pale. We heard yesterday that she was ok and had to spend two days in the hospital. The anti-venom is expensive but it saved her life!




On The Road

Just as we sat down to eat Ginny’s birthday dinner, a truck drove up followed by many spectators. A drunk policeman in uniform was going too fast on his motorcycle and had a one man crash. His face was pretty torn up, missing teeth, swollen eye, etc. Jeff thought he had a couple facial fractures and sent him to Caazapa.

Jeff saw an 8 year old boy who was just ran over by a tractor trailer. He was alive but had a huge hematoma over his right lower abdomen/ hip / femur and is urinating blood. Jeff quickly sent him away to the nearest surgeon (traveling on motorcycle with 3 people will take 1 1/2 hours).

Jeff telling a Bible story on our front porch before he sees the sick




co 2008 Amy McKissick

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Encuentro Sunday

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Today was a beautiful day for an outdoor church service. About 50 of us gathered at Eginio’s field this morning. The ladies began chopping food for the soup and the men set up tables and chairs. When lunch was cooking over the fire and the mandioca was peeled, we gathered in a big circle as Pedro gave the welcome. We sang several songs and then Pedro began to share about baptism. People here seem to think that they have to have everything perfect in their life before they can be baptized. One man told Jeff, “Once I become baptized I cannot mess up any more because if I do it will make the whole group look bad.” Some else told Jeff that they felt they needed to become a saint before they could be baptized. That public profession of Jesus Christ is enough to alienate them from friends and family. That is the town gossip for the weeks to come. To the believers, baptism is something to be taken very seriously.

Today we had the joy of seeing Nilsa baptized. She is my house help and one of my good friends. She gave her life to Christ two years ago at a youth camp. She had thought about baptism but was waiting to be perfect. Jeff explained the act of baptism in a way that she understood for the first time and she excitedly announced her decision last week. In her testimony she encouraged others to do the same because Jesus changes lives. Because we baptism in the animal's water tough, the believers clean it out early in the morning. When we have to have the baptism early on so the animals can drink again.

Around 11 we gathered again in a circle and listened to the Christmas Story. At noon we quickly ate lunch since it was threatening to storm. The thunder was music to our hears since it hasn’t rained in 5 ½ weeks. It has been super hot and everything it so dry. Our dirt roads pour dust into the house and I have to sweep my floors 3 or 4 times a day. Some of my friends have abandoned their vegetable gardens because the plants cannot grow. Just as we were driving home at 2:00 the sky broke loose with refreshing drops.


Lunch prep


Singing praises to Jesus in Guarani


Our future leaders!


Baptism in a cattle trough


Nilsa's baptism


Fellowship and drinking terere go hand and hand


Lunch time!




co 2008 Amy McKissick