Tuesday, February 14, 2012

JUST LIKE FAMILY...a timely matter

Recently we attended a wedding, a 15th birthday party, and our neighbor’s birthday dinner all of which we were the only non-family invited.  What an honor! 
For the 15th birthday, our invitation said 8pm.  We were the first to arrive at 9.  Paraguayans arrived at 10.  We ate at 11.  The waltz began at 12.  We left at 1.  Others left between 2 and 3am.

Again, the invitation said 8pm, but since this was our first wedding to attend, we didn’t know if the same “showing up late” rules applied.  We decided not to risk it, and headed for the church by foot at 8.  As soon as we got there, the father of the bride called our cell to say that the bride wouldn’t be there till 9:30.  He had seen us pass and felt badly that we would have to wait.

Our neighbor had invited us over for her birthday dinner at 8.  Of course, there was no way we were going at 8.  An hour later, I could not stand it (being late) anymore and I went across the street.  Jeff refused to go even at 9 and he held out till 9:30.  Of course, he missed nothing.  Others arrived about that time and we ate an hour after that.       

Sunday, February 12, 2012

TOOTHLESS and LOVING IT!


January 29, 2012

Tyler lost his 2nd upper tooth today. I love this look!

Friday, February 10, 2012

TAKING DOWN THE TREE

January 29, 2012

I felt like we put our Christmas tree up late this year, so we decided to keep it up all through January.  I wish I would have kept track of how many ornaments broke....between Julia’s curiosity, the others playing store with them, and our tile floors, there were many.  Oh, and the time Julia pulled the Christmas tree down.  Well, we finally got all the ornaments and other Christmas decorations put away, which made Micah pretty sad.  He wanted to keep it up till next year (so he said).  We have an advent stocking/calendar and each day in December he’d move a candy cane one spot over till the 24th.  He did this all through January too and each day would give us the countdown till the 25th.  When we’d tried to explain why Christmas won’t come for another year, he’d shrug his shoulders and say he already knew that.  Even though he knew it was wishful thinking, he was a little disappointed on the 25th.
Now it is time to think about Valentine’s Day and LOVE and KISSES.






Tuesday, February 7, 2012

SLUMBER PARTY!


January 26, 2012

I am praising God for a very blessed time last night. I had 5 teen girls over to my house for a slumber party (not a common thing in this culture).  We played games, decorated journals, laughed, ate dinner, frosted cookies and watched a movie. The main reason for having these girls over was to share what the Bible says about purity. I admit, I was a little nervous as I prepared the lessons and began praying over the girls during quiet times. I desperately wanted these girls to hear my heart (God’s heart) on this subject and not my fumbling mouth!

Jeff was gracious enough to take all the kids to a teammate’s house for the night so we could have complete privacy. It was wonderful to have a few hours in my house by myself (which NEVER happens). I prayed out loud and claimed these girls’ lives for Christ as I made beds, finished supper preparations and straightened the house. 

I have asked each of the girls to pray about the things we discussed and I have asked them to seek me out if they are serious about making a commitment to purity. My prayer is that each of these girls decides that they want God’s absolute best!

In our community, teen pregnancies are considered common, marriages are few and far between, sexual relationships are encouraged by parents, and the clothing, movies and advertising posters seen on every street corner promote sex. My desire is to have these slumber parties periodically and teach as many teens as I can.

Saturday, February 4, 2012

TIMOTHY TRAINING






January 19-21

            About a year ago, God gave my husband a vision to help reach rural Paraguay more efficiently.  For the past months he has been buying things in preparation (mattresses, notebooks, etc), making photocopies, and preparing studies and illustrations.  He has been inviting men and asking for prayer in regard to this project wherever he could.  We have been excitedly awaiting the date of the first Timothy Training Workshop.

How I wish I could have been a fly on the wall this past weekend!  When Jeff got home, he was full of stories of God’s faithfulness here’s what he says:

The first Timothy Training workshop was a huge success!  Between January 19th and 21st, 20 Paraguayan men representing 11 different communities and several different denominations met for 3 days of intense training.  Topics such as Paraguayan learning styles, oral pedagogy (teaching techniques geared toward non-literates and/or oral learners), Bible story crafting and storytelling, evangelism, discipleship and small group leadership training.  This has been a dream of our missionary family for several years and many of us have attended seminars, conferences, in-services and have done a lot of reading on the effectiveness of humbly laying down our preferred learning and teaching styles in order to best reach rural, Guarani-speaking Paraguayans.  Tony Floyd and Dan Reich, fellow SIMers, myself, along with Higinio and Pedro, the two elders of the San Francisco Bible Church, were the teaching staff for the conference.  We had our doubts about how far these 20 men, almost all being uneducated, hardworking farmers,  would be willing to go in storytelling in front of a large group, dramatizing the stories and setting them to music.  But they really excelled and enjoyed the process of working together in groups.  This was a TOTALLY different way to learn and share God’s Word, and many of them remarked at how effective and simple the storytelling method was.  In fact, this was the first Bible training of any kind some of the men had ever received. 

One of the object lessons that hit home for one school teacher/ lay leader was the pitcher of water and the chunk of ice.  In the lesson, a large pitcher (representing an organized outline and structure of a traditional sermon with 3 points and a lot of good information, illustrations and scripture references and abstract categories) was filled with water (God’s Word) and was then poured out into the hands of the first man.  Well, it was way more than his hands could hold and the excess ran out onto the ground.  He then waited a few moments and then passed his handful of water to the next man.  The process was sloppy and the water quickly drained through the space between the next man’s fingers and hands.  When he then tried to pass that water to the next man, only a few drops remained.  That teacher tuned to his neighbor and said, “That’s exactly how I teach!” This is what happens when a teaching style which works great in one place is tried in a different place where the majority of people does not think or learn in that manner.  The initial reception of the information, the short and long term retention of the information, and the subsequent transfer of that information are seriously flawed.  It just doesn’t work.  I then passed a medium sized chunk of ice (the words of God in vernacular, shorter, story form) to the first man who then passed it to the second who then passed it to the third and so on.  After many transfers, only a portion of the original had melted away.  It survived intact as it was originally given and received. That’s how it should be when we teach God’s Word in the way the people of our target audience prefer to receive, remember and transfer on to others.

 Stories do that here in Paraguay.  They get God’s Word off the pages of a book and deep down into the hearts and minds of people who can carry that Word around with them wherever they go.  It’s there to be retrieved and retold at a moment’s notice.  That school teacher is experiencing a paradigm shift.  And he isn’t the only one.  They are now equipped with 6 memorized stories, 6 memorized scriptures, speakers for playing memory chips which contain God’s Word and introductory material for each story, as well as a notebook full of written material (for those that read) and storyboards of drawings for remembering and teaching each story. These men are now charged with the task of telling each of the 6 stories a minimum of 3 times to different individuals.  Lord willing, they can start a new group and teach through the series of stories over the next 2 months.    They must also find a disciple and teach him the story set.  That disciple must also tell each story a minimum of three times.  At the next Timothy Training we hope to see many of the men plus their disciples pass the story telling exam!  Doing so will complete the fourth link in the chain according to 2 Timothy 2:2- “And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable men who will also be qualified to teach others.”



Thank you for praying!

Jeff

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

YOUTH CAMP


We’re praising God that 7 girls went to the annual SIM youth camp this year!  They came back with huge smiles and lots of stories.  One of the girls gave her life to the Lord.

Saturday, January 28, 2012

JANUARY GUESTS

 


The end of December, a missionary family (friends of ours) came to visit and brought his parents along who were visiting Paraguay.  They had been missionaries in Kenya for many many many years.  It was a short, but sweet time together.

January 6-10 two of Ginny’s best friends were able to stay with us.  Ryan graciously gave up his room so the girls could have some privacy.  Before they arrived, Ginny set to work cleaning the room, making the beds, and moving in her two most prized possessions (her barn with its animals and her hamster cage).  Over the next 4 days, the girls were a bundle of giggles!  They giggled while we did some crafts, they giggled through meals, the giggled as we watched Anne of Green Gables, and they giggled well past bedtime.  One of the girls said to me before she left, “I don’t think I’ve ever laughed this much!” How wonderful it is to have such good friends!


 
January 10-11 we had our second annual visit from Josh and Leti Berry.  We met the Berry’s several years ago at a mutual missionary friend’s wedding.  They are living in the US right now and came to Paraguay to visit Leti’s parents for the second Christmas in a row.  We feel very blessed that they would once again make the long out-of-the-way trek to see us.  



We have had an intern with us through January.  Daneille was not our “normal” intern.  She has been in Paraguay since July.  She spent two months in Asuncion learning Spanish and then 4 months teaching English in another town.  Since end of November she has been spending time with the missionaries in the rural part of Paraguay.  We were thankful that she came out our way for January.  She helped me teach English classes, shadowed Jeff a bit in clinic (even though she isn’t medical), conducted interviews with several of our Paraguayan friends (school requirements), spent a day helping on a friend’s farm (milking cows, delivering calves, picking peanuts), and played volleyball each night with her host family.  She has left just today to pick her parents up from the airport.  Hopefully they will all be able to make it out this way before they all fly back to Canada Feb 10th.
Daneille, Ginny and I milked cows with friends at 5AM.  They go to their farm every morning at that time to milk their 7 cows.  They get about 30-40 liters each morning.




January 10-14 Ryan spent 5 days with 4 of his closest friends in Villarrica. He had a wonderful time playing guitar, the wii, playing board games and computer games, swimming and playing soccer.  We sure missed him around here though!