Tuesday, February 14, 2012
JUST LIKE FAMILY...a timely matter
Recently we attended a wedding, a 15th
birthday party, and our neighbor’s birthday dinner all of which we were the only
non-family invited. What an honor!
For the 15th birthday, our invitation said
8pm. We were the first to arrive at 9. Paraguayans arrived at 10. We ate at 11.
The waltz began at 12. We left at
1. Others left between 2 and 3am.
Again, the invitation said 8pm, but since this was our
first wedding to attend, we didn’t know if the same “showing up late” rules
applied. We decided not to risk it, and
headed for the church by foot at 8. As
soon as we got there, the father of the bride called our cell to say that the
bride wouldn’t be there till 9:30. He had
seen us pass and felt badly that we would have to wait.
Our neighbor had invited us over for her birthday dinner
at 8. Of course, there was no way we
were going at 8. An hour later, I could
not stand it (being late) anymore and I went across the street. Jeff refused to go even at 9 and he held out
till 9:30. Of course, he missed
nothing. Others arrived about that time
and we ate an hour after that.
Sunday, February 12, 2012
Friday, February 10, 2012
TAKING DOWN THE TREE
January 29, 2012
I felt like we put our Christmas
tree up late this year, so we decided to keep it up all through January. I wish I would have kept track of how many
ornaments broke....between Julia’s curiosity, the others playing store with
them, and our tile floors, there were many.
Oh, and the time Julia pulled the Christmas tree down. Well, we finally got all the ornaments and
other Christmas decorations put away, which made Micah pretty sad. He wanted to keep it up till next year (so he
said). We have an advent
stocking/calendar and each day in December he’d move a candy cane one spot over
till the 24th. He did this
all through January too and each day would give us the countdown till the
25th. When we’d tried to explain why
Christmas won’t come for another year, he’d shrug his shoulders and say he
already knew that. Even though he knew
it was wishful thinking, he was a little disappointed on the 25th.
Now it is time to think about
Valentine’s Day and LOVE and KISSES.
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
SLUMBER PARTY!
January 26, 2012
I am praising God for a very blessed time last night. I
had 5 teen girls over to my house for a slumber party (not a common thing in
this culture). We played games,
decorated journals, laughed, ate dinner, frosted cookies and watched a movie.
The main reason for having these girls over was to share what the Bible says
about purity. I admit, I was a little nervous as I prepared the lessons and began
praying over the girls during quiet times. I desperately wanted these girls to
hear my heart (God’s heart) on this subject and not my fumbling mouth!
Jeff was gracious enough to take all the kids to a teammate’s
house for the night so we could have complete privacy. It was wonderful to have
a few hours in my house by myself (which NEVER happens). I prayed out loud and
claimed these girls’ lives for Christ as I made beds, finished supper preparations
and straightened the house.
I have asked each of the girls to pray about the things
we discussed and I have asked them to seek me out if they are serious about
making a commitment to purity. My prayer is that each of these girls decides
that they want God’s absolute best!
In our community, teen pregnancies are considered
common, marriages are few and far between, sexual relationships are encouraged
by parents, and the clothing, movies and advertising posters seen on every
street corner promote sex. My desire is to have these slumber parties
periodically and teach as many teens as I can.
Saturday, February 4, 2012
TIMOTHY TRAINING
January 19-21
About a year ago, God gave my husband a vision to help reach rural Paraguay more efficiently. For the past months he has been buying things in preparation (mattresses, notebooks, etc), making photocopies, and preparing studies and illustrations. He has been inviting men and asking for prayer in regard to this project wherever he could. We have been excitedly awaiting the date of the first Timothy Training Workshop.
How I wish I could have been a fly on the wall this past weekend! When Jeff got home, he was full of stories of
God’s faithfulness here’s what he says:
The first Timothy Training workshop was a huge
success! Between January 19th and 21st, 20
Paraguayan men representing 11 different communities and several different
denominations met for 3 days of intense training. Topics such as
Paraguayan learning styles, oral pedagogy (teaching techniques geared toward
non-literates and/or oral learners), Bible story crafting and storytelling,
evangelism, discipleship and small group leadership training. This has
been a dream of our missionary family for several years and many of us have
attended seminars, conferences, in-services and have done a lot of reading on
the effectiveness of humbly laying down our preferred learning and teaching
styles in order to best reach rural, Guarani-speaking Paraguayans. Tony
Floyd and Dan Reich, fellow SIMers, myself, along with Higinio and Pedro, the
two elders of the San Francisco Bible Church, were the teaching staff for the
conference. We had our doubts about how far these 20 men, almost all
being uneducated, hardworking farmers, would be willing to go in
storytelling in front of a large group, dramatizing the stories and setting
them to music. But they really excelled and enjoyed the process of
working together in groups. This was a TOTALLY different way to learn and
share God’s Word, and many of them remarked at how effective and simple the
storytelling method was. In fact, this was the first Bible training of
any kind some of the men had ever received.
One of the object lessons that hit home for one school
teacher/ lay leader was the pitcher of water and the chunk of ice. In the
lesson, a large pitcher (representing an organized outline and structure of a
traditional sermon with 3 points and a lot of good information, illustrations
and scripture references and abstract categories) was filled with water (God’s
Word) and was then poured out into the hands of the first man. Well, it
was way more than his hands could hold and the excess ran out onto the
ground. He then waited a few moments and then passed his handful of water
to the next man. The process was sloppy and the water quickly drained
through the space between the next man’s fingers and hands. When he then
tried to pass that water to the next man, only a few drops remained. That
teacher tuned to his neighbor and said, “That’s exactly how I teach!” This is
what happens when a teaching style which works great in one place is tried in a
different place where the majority of people does not think or learn in that
manner. The initial reception of the information, the short and long term
retention of the information, and the subsequent transfer of that information
are seriously flawed. It just doesn’t work. I then passed a medium
sized chunk of ice (the words of God in vernacular, shorter, story form) to the
first man who then passed it to the second who then passed it to the third and
so on. After many transfers, only a portion of the original had melted
away. It survived intact as it was originally given and received. That’s
how it should be when we teach God’s Word in the way the people of our target
audience prefer to receive, remember and transfer on to others.
Stories do that here in Paraguay. They get
God’s Word off the pages of a book and deep down into the hearts and minds of
people who can carry that Word around with them wherever they go. It’s
there to be retrieved and retold at a moment’s notice. That school
teacher is experiencing a paradigm shift. And he isn’t the only
one. They are now equipped with 6 memorized stories, 6 memorized
scriptures, speakers for playing memory chips which contain God’s Word and
introductory material for each story, as well as a notebook full of written
material (for those that read) and storyboards of drawings for remembering and
teaching each story. These men are now charged with the task of telling each of
the 6 stories a minimum of 3 times to different individuals. Lord
willing, they can start a new group and teach through the series of stories
over the next 2 months. They must also find a disciple and
teach him the story set. That disciple must also tell each story a
minimum of three times. At the next Timothy Training we hope to see many
of the men plus their disciples pass the story telling exam! Doing so
will complete the fourth link in the chain according to 2 Timothy 2:2-
“And the things you have heard me say in the
presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable men who will also
be qualified to teach others.”
Thank you for praying!
Jeff
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
YOUTH CAMP
We’re praising God that 7 girls went to the annual SIM youth camp this year! They came back with huge smiles and lots of stories. One of the girls gave her life to the Lord.
Saturday, January 28, 2012
JANUARY GUESTS
The end of December, a missionary family (friends of ours) came to visit and brought his parents along who were visiting Paraguay. They had been missionaries in Kenya for many many many years. It was a short, but sweet time together.
January 6-10 two of Ginny’s best friends were able to stay with us. Ryan graciously gave up his room so the girls could have some privacy. Before they arrived, Ginny set to work cleaning the room, making the beds, and moving in her two most prized possessions (her barn with its animals and her hamster cage). Over the next 4 days, the girls were a bundle of giggles! They giggled while we did some crafts, they giggled through meals, the giggled as we watched Anne of Green Gables, and they giggled well past bedtime. One of the girls said to me before she left, “I don’t think I’ve ever laughed this much!” How wonderful it is to have such good friends!
January 10-11 we had our second annual visit from Josh and Leti Berry. We met the Berry’s several years ago at a mutual missionary friend’s wedding. They are living in the US right now and came to Paraguay to visit Leti’s parents for the second Christmas in a row. We feel very blessed that they would once again make the long out-of-the-way trek to see us.
January 10-14 Ryan spent 5 days with 4 of his closest friends in Villarrica. He had a wonderful time playing guitar, the wii, playing board games and computer games, swimming and playing soccer. We sure missed him around here though!
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